It was narrated that 'Umar said: "I heard the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) say: 'The deceased is punished in his grave due to the wailing over him."'

It was narrated that 'Imran bin Husain said: "The deceased is punished due to his family's wailing for him." A man said to him: "A man died in Khurasan and his family wailed for him here; will he be punished due to his family's wailing?" He said: "The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) spoke the truth and you are a liar."

Ibn 'Abbas said: "Aishah said: Rather the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: 'Allah, the Mighty and Sublime increases the punishment of the disbeliever due to some of his family's weeping for him."'

It was narrated from Muhammad bin 'Amr bin 'Ata that Salamah bin Al-Azraq said: "I heard Abu Hurairah say: 'Someone from the family of the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) died, and the women gathered, weeping for him. 'Umar stood up and told them not to do that, and threw them out, but the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: Let them be there, O 'Umar, for the eye weeps and the heart grieves, but soon we will join them."

It was narrated that 'Abdullah said: "The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: 'He is not one of us who strikes his cheeks, rends his garment, calls out the calls of the Jahiliyyah."'

It was narrated from 'Abdullah that the Prophet (ﷺ) said: "He is not one of us who strikes his cheeks, rends his garment, and calls the calls of the Jahiliyyah."

It was narrated from 'Abdullah that the Prophet (ﷺ) said: "He is not one of us who strikes his cheeks, rends his garment, and calls the calls of the Jahiliyyah."

It was narrated from Yazid bin Aws, that: Abu Musa said he fell unconscious and an Umm Walad of his wept. When he woke up, he asked her: "Have you not heard what the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said?" She said: "He said: 'He is not one of us who raises his voice in lamentation, shaves his head, or rends his garments.""

It was narrated from Umm 'Abdullah, the wife of Abu Musa, that Abu Musa said: "The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: 'He is not one of us who shaves his head, raises his voice in lamentation or rends his garments."'

It was narrated that Al-Qartha' said: "When Abu Musa was close to death, his wife screamed and he said: 'Do you not know what the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said?" She said: 'Yes, Then she fell silent and it was said to her after that: 'What did the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) say?' She said: 'The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) cursed the one who shaves his head, raises his voice in lamentation or rends his garment."

It was narrated that Abu 'Uthman said: "Usamah bin Zaid told me: 'The daughter of the Prophet (ﷺ) sent word to him telling him: A son of mine is dying, come to us. He sent word to her, conveying his greeting of salam and saying: "To Allah belongs that which He takes and that which He gives, and everything has an appointed time with Allah. Let her be patient and seek reward." She sent word to him adjuring him to go to her. So he got up and went, accompanied by Sa'd bin 'Ubadah, Muadh bin Jabal, Ubayy bin Kab Zaid bin Thabit and some other men. The boy was lifted up to the Messenger of Allah, with the death rattle sounding in him, and his eyes filled with tears. Sa'd said: "O Messenger of Allah, what is this?" he said: "This is compassion which Allah has created in the hearts of His slaves. Allah has mercy on His compassionate slaves."

It was narrated that Thabit said: "I heard Anas say: 'The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: True patience is that which comes at the first blow."'

'Amr bin sa'eed bin Abi Husain told us that: 'Amr bin Shu'aib wrote to 'Abdullah bin 'Abdur-Rahman bin Abi Husain to offer condolences for a son of his who had died. In his letter he mentioned that he had heard his father narrate, that his grandfather, 'Abdullah bin 'Amr bin Al-As said: "The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: 'Allah does not approve for His believing slave, if He takes away his loved one from among the people of the Earth, and he bears that with patience and seeks reward, and says that which he is commanded any reward less than Paradise."'

It was narrated that Anas said: "The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: 'There is no Muslim, three of whose children die before reaching puberty, but Allah will admit him to Paradise by virtue of His mercy towards them."'

It was narrated that Sa'sa'ah bin Mu'awiyah said: "I met Abu Dharr and said: 'Tell me a Hadith.' He said: the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: There are no two Muslims, three of whose children die before reaching puberty, but Allah will forgive them by virtue of His mercy towards them."'

It was narrated from Abu Hurairah that the Prophet (ﷺ) said: "There are no two Muslims, three of whose children die before reaching puberty, but Allah will admit them to Paradise by virtue of His mercy toward them. It will be said to them: 'Enter Paradise.' They will say: 'Not until our parents enter.' So it will be said: 'Enter Paradise, you and your parents."'

It was narrated from Anas: that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) announced the news of the death of Zaid and Ja'far before news of them came. He announced their death and his eyes were overflowing with tears.

Abu Salamah and Ibn Al-Musayyab narrated that Abu Hurairah told them, that: the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) had told them of the death of An-Najashi, the ruler of Ethiopia, on the day that he died, and he said: "Pray for forgiveness for your brother."

Rabiah bin Saif Al-Mu'afiri narrated from Abu 'Abdur-Rahman Al-Hubuli, from 'Abdullah bin 'Amr, who said: "while we were traveling with the Messenger of Allah, he saw a woman, and did not think that he knew her. When she was halfway to him, he stopped until she reached him, and it was Fatimah, the daughter of the Messenger of Allah. He said to her: 'What brought you out of your house, O Fatimah?' She said: 'I came to the people of this deceased one to pray for mercy for them, and to offer my condolences to them.' He said: 'Perhaps you went with them to Al-Kuda?" She said: 'Allah forbid that I should go there. I heard what you said about that.' He said: If you had gone there with them, you would never have seen Paradise until the grandfather of your father saw it."'

It was narrated from Abu Al-Hasan, the freed slave of Umm Qais bint Mihsan, that Umm Qais said: "My son died, and I felt very sad. I said to the one who was washing him: 'Do not wash my son with cold water and kill him." 'Ukashah bin Mihsan went to the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) and told him what she had said, and he smiled then said: "What did she say, may Allah give her long life?" And we do not know of any woman who lived as long as she lived.